Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Support our Military with The Art of Marriage Ops {$20 Applebee's Gift Card Giveaway}

{This giveaway is now closed. Congratulations, Jennifer M!}

I've complained before about my husband having to occasionally head out of town for work, as the days and nights that he is gone seem to stretch endlessly long. The girls miss their dad and I miss having him there for everything from companionship to a parenting tag-team partner. Things just aren't the same without him!

However, as much as I whine about him being gone for a day or two at a time, I can't even begin to imagine what it would be like if he was deployed for an extended period of time that so many military families have to endure. How in the world do they manage for six months or a year or even more? And how does their marriage not suffer?

Fortunately, The Art of Marriage Ops recognizes the sacrifices that our military personnel make and, as they believe that marriage is the most important commitment that a man and woman can make, wants to do all they can to help keep the love alive.


For many service men and women the day they return home is the happiest day of their lives, but what happens after the reunion is over? Military divorces have increased 42% since 2001, a statistic that I find sad but not all that surprising considering the amount of time spent apart and the stresses that these couples go through.

Clearly it seems that while there are opportunities for support and help in other areas, marriage counseling isn't an issue that is focused on nearly as much. Therefore, The Art of Marriage Ops was designed to raise awareness about the challenges that military families face when returning home and strengthen marriages by providing simple, effective insights for helping couples to cultivate a healthy and happy relationship.

There are multiple ways to show your support and contribute, but the easiest is quick and simple: Just text OPS to 80888 and make a $10 donation to help our men and women in the military benefit their relationship by attending an event showcasing The Art of Marriage.

Want more ways to support this great campaign? Check out the widget below for more info on how you can help, while also picking up some date night tips that can help inspire all couples:


No matter what views you might have on things like politics or abortion or gay marriage, one topic that has the ability to unite our nation is the support that our military troops and their families deserve. Whether or not you or a loved one are directly involved with the military or what you think about war, there is no way to deny the sacrifices that our troops make when they leave their homes and families behind.

Now, thanks to The Art of Marriage Ops, we can all help the men and women who have defended our country return home to a strong, healthy marriage.

And, thanks to their generosity, one person will be prepared to possibly head out for a small date night of their own, because...

One lucky person will win a $20 gift card to Applebee's!

To enter to win: Leave me a comment on this post with your best tip for keeping a relationship strong or a fun date night idea to help strengthen a relationship.

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Giveaway will end on March 22nd at 11:59pm CST. By entering this sweepstakes, you are agreeing to these official rules. No purchase necessary, void where prohibited by law. Do me the favor of leaving an email address or making absolutely sure it is visible in your profile, I have to have a way to contact the winner. The winner will be chosen by random.org and announced here as well as emailed and will have 48 hours to contact me or respond to notification or a new winner will be chosen. The number of eligible entries received determines the odds of winning. This giveaway is open to U.S. residents only and must be 18 years of age or older.

A big thank you to The Art of Marriage Ops for providing an Applebee's gift card for one lucky giveaway winner. The opinions shared are my own and honest and if you really need to see more, click here to see how I roll.

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Jennifer T. said...

As a date idea: I heard (on the news) about a place where you pay to relieve stress by bashing electronics and the like. That would actually be a fun and destructive but controlled way to let go!
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truth and communication

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Barbara Montag said...

Our fun date - Dancing with Just Dance 2 with the Wii and our favorite Chinese take out.
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mverno said...

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sksweeps said...

I love dancing so my ideal date night would definitely include dancing! One date that was awesome was dinner under the stars on the deck (he cooked) with wild flowers that he'd picked, followed by dancing on the deck! We said we were at the Starlight Lounge!

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Keep fun and laughter in the relationship.
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Anonymous said...

always be honest

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The main thing to keep a relationship strong is to maintain honesty and good communication.

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Sunnymay said...

Relationships take work, time and effort and a willingness to listen to the other side.
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never ignore feeligns!
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*Kara* said...

A romantic dinner and a movie!

Hannah said...

Put God at the center of your marriage

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jlafount said...

Go to a new place once in awhile.

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compromise and communication.

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Anonymous said...

spend lots of time together

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channallocks said...

just be each others friend

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Barbara said...

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Valerie Taylor Mabrey said...

I think a night out in the park listening to music with a picnic basket
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cowboyswife said...

Relax and be yourself. Laugh, have fun and enjoy each others company, don't sweat the small stuff and grow together as each year passes.

Jessica said...

We love to walk around flea markets, sometimes we pick up fresh ingredients to cook dinner together later that night. We always have a blast!
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Hotsnotty2 said...

I think its fun to make a picnic and go to the park and enjoy it together, thanks for the chance

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Shawn said...

I think it really helps a relationship to make sure you take time for just the two of you for a date night or just to talk and reconnect.

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Kathie L said...

My husband & I like to go to dinner, then see a band or concert. We are going to see Bruce Springsteen next month!

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Mommy 2 Monkeys said...

We like to take a picnic to the airport and watch planes take off.

Alison said...

Just having quiet time along without the kids is so nice. We didn't realize how much we needed that until we started making time for it. (alidear at hotmail dot com)

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lmurley2000 said...

my tip is always be honest to each other

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Anonymous said...

Get grandma and grandpa to watch the kids so you can have some quality alone time, and take time to hold hands.

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Tyler Cooper said...

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Erica C. said...

My best tip to keep a relationship strong is to be sure to have your own time and your own hobbies. Everyone needs to keep part of their individuality to be able to be in a good relationship.
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Christina said...

Christina - xristya@rock.com - To keep your relationship strong, always have a truce time where you just have fun together! You'll remember the fun and it'll bond you!

Anonymous said...

My husband and I love to go to early bird dinner specials (to save money) and then end the night at the library looking at books together or browsing the internet on our laptop. It is a nice low cost evening together.

Carolyn Ellis said...

Never go to bed mad. Try a real kiss instead.

Mo said...

My tip is to laugh. and laugh a lot. I've reunited with my husband whom i divorced after 16 years. we are together again. and we have learned to laugh again.
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chadro said...

a fun date night I think would be roller skating and a burger joint afterwards

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try to spend alone time as much as possible
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Karen said...

Try to find new things to do together that you've never done before. Thanks for the giveaway.

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Melanie Montgomery said...

Trusting each other, and letting each other have freedom and space is important.


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Kristie said...

Make time for each other and make sure to compliment one another :-)

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movie dates or picnics
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Betty C said...

My hubby and I used to take an evening to go play miniature golf. Without the kiddos it was even more fun for the two of us.
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The waterpark is always a great date in the summer!

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Kathy P said...

to stay strong you need honesty and trust without it you have nothing

Stacy said...

One date night that we definitely don't do as often as we should is either packing a picnic or grabbing some takeout and going to the local beach to watch the sunset. Not only is it romantic and beautiful, it puts everything into perspective. A sunset always reminds me of how wonderful the universe is and how insignificant my problems are in the grand scheme of things.

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Lisa Garner said...

A fun date night idea my husband and I like is going roller skating.
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Tylerpants said...

A surprise weekend trip is great for a relationship..have someone you trust watch the kid(s) for 2 days and have some fun! tylerpants(at)gmail.com

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sumn said...

Listen to each other, talk over problems, and never go to bed mad.

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Sand said...

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wallindeb said...

My best tip is to spend time together, and not only talk, but listen.
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Anonymous said...

Trust each other.

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cman said...

Even when you can't get a babysitter and go out you can have a movie/date night at home when kids are in bed.

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